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Questions from the Pickle Jar: Teens and Sex
This new book helps teens think about sexuality as God meant it to be. With humor and honesty, author Ron DeBoer answer the questions teens ask about issues such as homosexuality, premarital sex, and more.
http://faithaliveresources.org/Questions-from-the-Pickle-Jar?leadsource=23
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Teenagers, Homosexuality, Sexuality, Youth Curriculum, Premarital Sex, Teens And Sex, Teaching Youth About Sex, Christian Sexuality, Youth And Sex, Faith Alive Christian Resources
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My granddaughter is a lesbian. This is the first in my family.
My grandaughter (Vero, short for Veronica)is a lesbian and has been for over a year now. Her mother (my daughter Regina) is not a Christian and is very protective of anyone sternly addressing this problem with Vero.
I had a situation with Vero one night when I came home around midnight and found her in her bedroom with her girlfriend. She knew she was not allowed to have girls spend the night because she knows I am against homosexuality. Vero’s mother came out of the room accusing me of want to see Vero’s girlfriend naked. I wasn’t leaving Vero’s bedroom until the girl came out of the closet and left. If I would have left the room allowing her girlfriend to get out of the closet, Vero would have blocked the door so I could not get in. That is why I would not leave the room. I sat on the bed and waited. Eventually the girl came out, got dressed and left with Vero. My Daughter Regina asked Vero not to leave, but she left without a word.
I’ve been very critical of this because our Lord finds this detestable. Weeks went by and I finally found my moment to explain to Vero my walk is with God, theirs is with the world as non-Christians and therefore you must follow my rules in my house where God and I do not except her way of life.
In Janet Cavazo’s story, I think it’s important for her to tell Vero and her mother that God loves them but hate the sin they involve in. I think by saying this few words she could help both mother & daughter and grand-daughter
Thank you for standing firm against the “sin”. That truely shows “real” love for your granddaughter! By NOT allowing this sin in your home, GOD will bless your home and one day Vero will come back to the Lord. Too many times parents or grandparents think they are being mean to their children and grandchildren if they stand against the sin when in fact they are standing firm on God’s Holy Word. We too have a son living in the life of homosexuality. We refuse to call him “gay”. God did not create male, female and “homosexual” people. “Male and female created He them”. Those that live that life have been fooled and deceived by Satan to believe they are born that way. An absolute lie of the devil. We love our son dearly, but we will never be accepting to the sin that will take him to hell, no more than if he were choosing to be a child molestor or a person who has sexual relations with animals… I know that sounds really perverse, but in Leviticus 18:22 & 23, that’s where the Bible lists homosexuality as a sin, right next to those perverse sexual sins calling them detestable as you mentioned before. God Bless you as you stand firm on His Word. BJ
@ BJ: You do realise that gay people aren’t another sex, right?
And since when is harassing your granddaughter and her girlfriend considered ‘loving’?