2012-04-25T10:22:45-05:00 GCI info@gospel.com /feeds/topics/compatibility/ http://hutchcraft.com/a-word-with-you/your-relationships/the-splitter-upper-6598 2012-04-25T10:22:45-05:00 If you're a parent, you just can't afford to choose between your children. If you're a son or a daughter, you can't afford to pick one parent to be close to and the other one to kind of freeze out or ignore. In spiritual leadership you can't afford to get close to one person over another. If people work for you, you've got to treat them the same.