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When You've Been Hurt By Friendly Fire - #6052
Let go of the resentment instead of letting it grow. Ask the God who has forgiven you so much to give you His grace to forgive those who've hurt you. The feelings you harbor aren't hurting them at all, but they're killing you!
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Forgiveness, Hebrews, Grace, Peace, Recovery, 1 Peter, Resentment, Forgiven, Your Most Important Relationship, Wounded
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But my spouse continually hurts me with his words, his actions and continually cheating. he has filed for a divorce to be with the girl.
Thank you for your post. I can relate to this as well. I recently found out that my wife of 5 years has been having an afair. We have 2 children. I serve in the US military and am currently serving overseas in harms way. My heart is broken and my faith has been weakened. Through the storm, the hurt and the pain, I am committed to God, to my wife and my family. During this time and trial, I pray that God may allow me to find and give forgiveness, to not fall pray to resentment and be thankful to Him for the forgiveness that he has granted me.
Starting over is a long and hard road after a divorce. I think that a marriage can be healed thru the grace of God. I know mine was. My husband cheated a long time ago. I got thru it by his God’s grace and not talking to others about my negative feelings toward my husband. After all it is easier for you to forgive him or her than it is for your family members to forgive and anything negative they remember. God gave me the grace to forgive and let go of the pain and move forward. Don’t let anyone break-up your home if you love someone. Today we have a happy Christian home and my husband is an associate Pastor in our local church.
God can heal a broken heart and give you the strength to forgive and grow in a healty and good relationship. Remember when you forgive you have to put it behind you to move forward.